Thursday, August 26, 2010

When the bus comes......

When the first bus came, you looked at it and you said to yourself, "eeee...not this one, it is just so full. There will not be an empty seat and I might stand whole journey”. Hence a voice in you said, "I'll wait for the next one”. Therefore you let the bus go and waited for the second bus.

Then the second bus came, you looked at it and you said, "no way...this bus so old...surely very uncomfortable and it may breakdown." Again, you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

After a while,another bus came. It was not crowded and not old but the voice in you said, "damn...this one has no air-cond and the weather is so warm, I better wait for the next one". You let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late. You panicked and jumped on to the next on coming bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded on to the wrong bus! It was not at all taking you to your destination. Wrong bus, wrong route!!

Terrible, you had wasted your time and money waiting for what you never wanted! Even if an air-cond bus came, could you ensure that the air-cond bus won't break down or will the air-cond be too cold for you? 

It is only natural that you want to make sure that what you want is not wrong. But it wouldn't hurt to give other people a chance, right? If you found that the "bus" doesn't suit you, just press the red button and get off the bus!

But wait...I am sure you would have experienced this before. You saw a bus coming (the bus you want, of course) you flagged it and the driver acted blur by pretending not seeing you and zoomed pass you!

The bottom line of being loved is like waiting for a bus and whether you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance depends totally on you and walking alone is just like being out of love. The choice is yours!

"If you love someone set him/her free.
If he/she comes back to you, you know they're yours.
If they don't then it was never meant to be."

Remember to always say what you mean. If you love someone, just tell. Why wait and waste time? Don't be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and tell that special someone what they mean to you because when you decide that it is the right time,it might be too late. Don't let love pass by unnoticed, concealed and unspoken!

What worst could happen? Rejection? Dejection? So what!? At least you tried. Love never fails, it is the people and their mindset! ;) 

Always seize the day and never have regrets. Most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today. It could make a difference. The difference between doing all that you want or having regrets which may stay with you forever.

Friendship is never an accident. It is always the result of high intentions, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution. It represents the wise choice of many alternatives.   
And remember, no matter what: Keep Smiling....coz... "Of All Things You Wear, Your Smile Is The Reflection of Love”!


  1. Wah! Wah!..Carpe Diem...
    Excellent post..While I was reading..I thought you were wrote about some missing bus tragedy..but this one is an insightful post...Thanks :)..

    ~Now I have to dust my check out all my crushes..and start sending roses :P..

  2. Hey ranjini.... something motivative but what can someone do when he know that to express himself will destroy some other relation or will not be accepted at any cost...

    BTW nice bus and girls theory

  3. hey ranjini..
    u inspired me..really..
    i admire the philosophical connect between BUS and GIRL...
    nice writing, so clear cut in ur thots..tells how beautiful heart u possess..keep it up..
    Avneesh Sharma

  4. @Unknown : Yah, why not send them flowers or chocolates. After all, crushes are real growing pains!! :D

    @Mag: I get what you mean! But again, wouldn't it be better if one just expresses rather than regretting. One who understands will not seek explanation, and one who seeks explanation never understood!!

    @Avneesh:The "Bus" is actually referred to a "relationship". God knows how many buses we have missed in our lives!! ;)

  5. Hey guys, thanks for your comments!!


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